Frequently Asked Questions: LGBTQIA+ Engagement & Wedding Rings

Welcome to our FAQ for LGBTQIA+ engagement rings and wedding bands. We specialise in designs for lesbian, gay, non-binary, queer, and gender-fluid couples, both in the UK and internationally. Here you’ll find answers about gender-neutral rings, custom designs, timelines, ethical sourcing, virtual consultations, and international shipping. Every ring is made to order and designed to celebrate your unique love story, not traditional expectations.

Whether you’re exploring a proposal, planning your wedding, or looking for a special and symbolic gift, this guide will help you navigate the process and choices that will lead you to your perfect rings.

Do you design wedding rings and engagement rings specifically for LGBTQIA+ couples?
Yes. We specialise in engagement rings and wedding bands for LGBTQIA+ couples, designed to be inclusive and free from gender norms. Our collection features symbolic, personalised designs that reflect your personalities and unique relationship rather than traditional expectations. Every ring is made to order and can be customised for style, story, and symbolism.

    We can help if you are searching for:
  • Gay engagement rings in the UK
  • Lesbian wedding bands
  • Gender-neutral engagement rings
  • Custom wedding rings for LGBTQIA+ couples
  • Bespoke engagement rings near London

We specialise in exactly that. Explore our collection online or book a private consultation to begin designing rings that reflect your life and journey — together forever.

Are your rings suitable for same-sex proposals?
Absolutely. We design engagement rings for same-sex proposals across the UK and internationally. We are dedicated to engagement and wedding rings for LGBTQIA+ relationships, including lesbian, gay, bisexual, trans, queer, intersex, and asexual couples. For us the most important thing is love.

    Options include:
  • One partner proposing first, then designing the second ring together
  • Designing both rings in advance
  • Creating a “proposal ring” as a placeholder for a formal engagement ring

There are no fixed rules — we can discuss options to suit your circumstances and desires.

Do you create gender-neutral engagement rings and wedding bands?
Yes. Many clients request gender-neutral or non-binary ring designs. Our focus is to provide the LGBTQ community with an exemplary service and rings of the very highest quality.

    Options include:
  • Minimalist designs
  • Wider bands
  • Symbols of sexuality or identity
  • Matching or complementary rings
  • Clean, sculptural shapes

All rings are made to order, allowing you to choose proportions, diamonds, gemstones, and finishes tailored to your preferences.

Where are you based, and do you meet clients outside London?
We are based near London but work with clients across the UK and internationally. We have meet many happy gay, lesbian and gender non-conforming couples right across the length and breath of the UK.

  • Our base is our family's jewelry store in Hertfordshire.
  • We travel for in-person consultations around the UK.
  • Virtual appointments are available, including secure video consultations for US and international clients.
  • Consultations are free of charge and focused on listening first.

We hope you will give us the opportunity to discuss your plans and help you to select designs that honour your relationship — whether bold and expressive or subtly personal.

Do you ship engagement and wedding rings internationally?
Yes. We ship worldwide, with the United States as our primary international market. All rings are fully insured during shipping and carefully packaged. We guide international clients through creation timelines, sizing, and customs requirements.

Are all rings bespoke?
Yes. All rings are made to order. From our collection, each ring is crafted specifically for you, with optional customisation. We also offer fully bespoke rings that are designed from scratch in collaboration with you.

Just let us know what you'd love and, I'm sure, we can bring it to life.

What is the price range for your rings?
The price of rings varies greatly and is determined by a number of factors. We will help you understand the cost implication of metal choices, weights and, where applicable, diamond quality.

    Ring prices depending on:
  • Metal choice (platinum, palladium, gold type and grade)
  • Diamond or gemstone type, size, and quality
  • Width and weight
  • Design complexity and level of customisation

We prioritise craftsmanship, ethical sourcing, and customer service.

How long does it take to make a ring?
It's best to start selecting your rings as soon as possible. Getting things underway early gives you peace-of-mind that a very important part of your ceremony is ready. Let us help to make choosing your rings a relaxing and romantic experience.

    Lead time to create your rings:
  • Collection designs: 4–6 weeks
  • Fully bespoke rings: 8–12 weeks (includes consultation and CAD design if needed)

We recommend starting the process at least 3 months before your proposal or wedding to allow time for design, production, and shipping.

Can you help if we’re not sure who proposes or what traditions to follow?
Yes. Many LGBTQIA+ couples prefer non-traditional proposal arrangements. We understand the new dynamics of same-sex and non-conforming relationships and support your desire for genuine self expression.

    Options include:
  • One partner proposing first
  • Designing rings together before proposing
  • Using a proposal ring as a placeholder
  • Skipping engagement rings and focusing on wedding bands

We create space for you to define your own traditions, ideally during an in-person or virtual consultation.

Do you offer matching wedding rings for two brides or two grooms?
Yes. We create matching, complementary, or completely individual wedding bands that are symbolic for gay men, lesbians and non-conforming, non-traditional couples.

    Options include:
  • Identical rings or shared design elements (metal type, width, finish, diamonds)
  • Individually styled rings that reflect personal taste

A personal consultation is the ideal forum to explore what is right your you and your partner.

Are your diamonds and gemstones ethically sourced?
Yes. We prioritise ethical sourcing from suppliers who comply with the Responsible Jewellery Council (RJC) Code of Practices. We take sustainability very seriously.

    Options include:
  • Conflict-free diamonds
  • Lab-grown diamonds (for larger sizes)
  • Single Mine Origin (SMO) metals
  • Alternative gemstones

Transparency is central to our ethos and design process.

Can we include personal engraving or symbolic details?
Absolutely. We can engrave your special message inside your rings as part of their creation. Just let us know what you'd like and our crafts person will do the rest.

    Many couples choose:
  • Private messages
  • Important dates
  • Meaningful symbols
  • Hidden stones inside the band

Personalisation is a core part of every made-to-order ring.

Do you work with couples planning destination weddings?
Yes. We frequently work with couples marrying abroad from the USA to Spain to Thailand. We would be pleased to discuss all aspects this with you.

  • We advise on safe transport, insurance, and care
  • We ensure creation and shipping timelines allow your rings to arrive safely

The earlier we can talk through your plans the better.
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What makes you different from traditional jewellers?
We are gay-owned and operated, specialising in LGBTQIA+ couples. We are specialists in wedding jewellery and take pride in our quality and service.

  • Consultations are inclusive, affirming, and free from gender assumptions
  • We design around your relationship, not “his and hers” templates
  • We welcome custom requests and special needs

We hope you will soon fall in love with a ring from our collection.

Do you offer virtual consultations?
Yes. Secure video consultations are available for UK and international clients. We guide you through design options, stone choices, sizing, and timelines.

How do we start the process?
First, browse our main collection on our website and see which designs speak to you. Discuss with your partner their preferences. At this stage you are just getting a feel for a ring that reflects your personalities.

We can then guide you step-by-step through design, quotation, production, and delivery.

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